| Paw Colors | Points |
|---|---|
| Grey | 0-49 |
| Red | 50-149 |
| Orange | 150-299 |
| Green | 300-599 |
| Magenta | 600-1499 |
| Purple | 1500-4999 |
| Blue | 5000-9999 |
| Brown | 10000-24999 |
| Black | 25000+ |
We got another cat for my sister but it has gotten a liking to me and now my older cat hates me and I use to be able to use her as a pillow lightly and now I can’t even pet her! She won’t come in my room! Only the new cat will and it’s SUPPOSE to be my sister’s cat! My cat doesn’t love me anymore! Be please help me. I’m crying right now. I just want my cat to love me again. Please tell me what to do. :’(
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It sounds like your cat is very jealous. 
I don’t have a good answer, other than try to spend more time with “your” cat and less with the new one. It will take time. When I introduced my third cat, my others were really jealous for a while. They ignored me and stopped sleeping in my bed for a while. Eventually they came around, though.
How long has it been?
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Our new cat is already liking me more. Now they BOTH sometimes go in my room, then they end up getting a little wild. We've had our new cat for at least 6 months now.
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I’m sorry - I really feel for you. That somewhat happened to me when I was younger. I begged my parents for a Boston terrier, and when we finally got one, he grew attached to my sister and my sister only. He was truly a one-person dog.
That’s the trouble we get into with living things as “possessions” - you say it’s “your” cat and the other is your “sister’s”, but the cats have personalities and preferences of their own that aren’t dictated solely by ownership.
Your cat is probably jealous. She has gotten used to having you to herself, and now not only is this other cat invading her territory, but it’s also taking away your attention from her. That’s rough for an animal as territorial as a cat.
My suggestion is to absolutely lavish your cat with attention and affection. Ignore the other cat if your cat is around (I always feel guilty when my Vespa catches me giving love to our newer cat, B-Rock… she gives me that death stare…). Give your cat special treats, like catnip or some plain chicken. Give her a new toy. Do anything special you can think of to show her that you love her.
It will take time. Be patient with her. Good luck!!!
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Please help me! I’m sooo upset and my cat scratches me every time I try to pet her! My hand is bleeding. (Well, it was bleeding, but it stopped now) But, my new cat sleeps on my bed, ad stays in my room, and loves me! She dosen’t spend any time with my sister! Now my older cat Valentine completely ignores me and isn’t half as nice as she was before. Please help me find out what to do. I’ll do anything. I’ll keep her out of my room if I have too! I just can’t get rid of the cat, because it’s technially my sister’s cat. They still hate each other and I don’t think they’ll ever like each other. Whenever I spend time with my cat she gets mad and the only cat that likes me is my sister’s cat. The worst part is, My cat is liking my sister better!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! It’s terrible and backwards!!!!!!! Please help!!!!!!! Don’t do it for me, but for a cat that feels neglected and needs help because her owner is doing a terrible job right now!
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shes jelous
i suggest that u hold her more.
wear gloves too. 
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Hmmmmmmmmmm............:D Let me see if this works...... BTW, thank you all for your help. My cat is beginning to like me better already!
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Well it seems that you pamper your other cat more you should give yuor sisters cat to your sister and wathever you do dont touch your sistes cat just approach your cat slowly and gently and whenever she comes closer to you you give her a treat and you repeat that process and she hopefully will love you again!
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