Can you help me my husband’s cat is out of control what do I do?

What can I do? My husband rescued a kitten. The cat’s name is Steve. We think he is about 6 months old and we have had him for 3 months now. he loves to go up to your face in the middle of the night and tap you in the face for attention (with out scratches no claws out) even though gentle IT WAKES E UP even at 4 am. I have to put duck tape on the cabinet doors in kitchen, I will not result to baby locks for this out of control cat! NO. He bangs cabinets all over the house to get attention and sometime he will just hang on the cabinet door in front of you like he is doing pullups ? Get this one! There is a love seat near the hall entrance and the cat waits on the top of the sofa for someone to walk by in the middle of the night to use the bathroom just to swat them! It’s like he has figured out our routine at night and he is stocking us. He is crazy he is all over the house! When the phone rings he runs to the phone and knocks the handset off the stand before I can get to it and people hang up. After awhile of this jokestir it just isn’t funny anymore. My husband thinks it hilarious but I don’t. It is a constant battle of the house what do I do!